…or to never have loved at all? Anyone who has read my novel, Bashert, knows that the answer is an unequivocal YES. If there is a single theme in the novel, it is that finding our soulmate is what elevates life and enables us to be the most we can be during our sojourn here on earth. But…inherent in the relationship of two people who love and aspire to bring joy and meaning into each other’s lives, is the reality that just as we emerge from different wombs at different times,